Follow My Transformation: Choose Right

Hello friends,

It’s your girl, Selena.

I asked the question regarding what’s your definition of Manipulation a couple of weeks ago? And what’s the root of it or does it even matter? Things are not always what they seem. You don’t necessarily know a person’s intention, or you might. I say choose the right connections and partnerships because selecting anything less than ideal produces challenges and conflicts. Yes, I have trust issues, yet I’m perfectly fine with God, Jesus, and The Holy Spirit. A year ago, I started and completed several incredible personal development courses because I always thought the problem was me. I will continue the journey in late 2020 for growth; however, now I need the time time to digest and implement the information I’ve processed. I’ve taken the approach to look internally first. And I have allowed others to make me feel as if the problem was with me. 


“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” Albert Einstein

Sometimes we allow others to define us because of their status, accolades, and achievements, etc. During this time, you might feel this tug-of-war inside. Listen to the heart instead of what you might think – your thoughts. More than likely, it’s God. He’s trying to establish a deeper bond with us. A lifetime connection, not just a purposeful one. Furthermore, God will send people in your life when He deems necessary. There’s no reason to go and chase relationships when God will simply blesses you with the right connections.  

And you might ask, when do I know? How will I know? The answer will be when the communication just flows, and 5 minutes turn into hours. You’re not even watching the clock. The relationship feels effortless like it was handed on a silver platter. You feel terrific about yourself and the other individual. And you’re saying to yourself, “Oh my gosh, that’s just possibly one of the most amazing people I’ve ever met.” The following does not exist – envy, jealousy, anger, and competition because it’s the energy that God has placed in your heart and their heart. The relationship you’re seeking might even already exist in your life, but your attention has been drawn elsewhere. Remember, notice the whispers. 

Proverbs 15:22 

Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers, they succeed.

The above is true, only when you “Choose Right.” Or better yet, when God and His own Divine Council chooses for you. Until you find those earthly beings, you have an unlimited pool of advisors and Ones that will cause no harm and who are waiting to guide you in the right direction. And who actually knows what’s the right direction. 

John 10:27-28

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand.

No one else can know what’s happening with you because God is only talking to you. So choose wisely because the adversary is watching as well. I know it’s challenging when all around you see the allure of it all. These amazing communities and fabulous circles. I’m there with you. I understand. 

Bottom line, you’re worthy of surprising deep loving connections that are effortless when God blesses you with them. And in your heart, you already know what’s right for you. Trust in you because you’re extraordinary. 

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Thank you for your patience, support, kind words, and encouragement.

Blessings and Opportunities every second of the day,

Selena Cobb-Flowers Order Now – The Light

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